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Monday, March 16, 2015
Friday, March 13, 2015
‘The Confessional Is a Place of Victory’
BY JOSEPH PRONECHEN, NATIONAL CATHOLIC REGISTER
Father Mike Schmitz is the director of youth and young adult ministry for the Diocese of Duluth, Minn., the chaplain for Newman Catholic campus ministry at the University of Minnesota at Duluth and a popular speaker. As the chaplain, he makes the sacrament of reconciliation available every day and has written about this sacrament from his priestly perspective.
Why do you think people are afraid of the confessional or neglect it today?
First, it means admitting to someone that you’ve messed up. We live in a world afraid of showing weakness, a world where we’re afraid admitting we failed. Living in such a culture makes it hard and scary, admitting my performance didn’t measure up.
We have a tendency to really doubt our worth. But I have to admit my worth isn’t dependent upon my performance.
Then there’s a lot of suspicion and these fears — will the priest get mad at me or think poorly of me later on?
This is not about making you feel as bad as you can feel, but it’s about helping you be healed as much as you can be healed. The priest is there showing how. The Catechism shows the priest is the servant of the sacrament and meant to be a minister of healing.
Once people get that, then confession takes on a whole new dimension.
What do you say about those who think, “I don’t have to go to confession because I haven’t done anything really bad”?
There’s a misunderstanding of what sin is and who God is. Sin is a certain kind of decision, but most have a second grade understanding of that, like “Did you pull your sister’s hair?” Then the teenager thinks, “Hitler was bad, and I’m not as bad as that.”
When it comes to relationship, you can describe sin as this: You’re saying to God, “God, I know what you want me to do, but I don’t care: I want to do what I want to do.” There’s a certain sense of rebellion. It’s saying, “I will not serve — I have other things I want to do.”
Even if I put the word “rebellion” to that, people say, “No, I just don’t care.” The problem becomes not only you don’t know what sin is, but you don’t understand who God is. God is not just “some people” or “other people.” He’s not just some guy who I can or cannot obey.
If people understand that, they have a more mature understanding of what sin is.
Do most Catholics have this understanding?
Most Catholics in our culture have about a second grade level of their faith. I mean that not as an insult — that’s a description. Ask them: “What are the Ten Commandments?” The vast majority can’t name the Ten Commandments.
So the examination of conscience is still a second-grade exam — “Did I pull my sister’s hair or disobey my parents?” It should be: “How am I treating my co-workers? Do I tell white lies on daily basis? Have I harbored grudges or forgiven people? How do I treat my wife?”
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Father Mike Schmitz is the director of youth and young adult ministry for the Diocese of Duluth, Minn., the chaplain for Newman Catholic campus ministry at the University of Minnesota at Duluth and a popular speaker. As the chaplain, he makes the sacrament of reconciliation available every day and has written about this sacrament from his priestly perspective.
Why do you think people are afraid of the confessional or neglect it today?
First, it means admitting to someone that you’ve messed up. We live in a world afraid of showing weakness, a world where we’re afraid admitting we failed. Living in such a culture makes it hard and scary, admitting my performance didn’t measure up.
We have a tendency to really doubt our worth. But I have to admit my worth isn’t dependent upon my performance.
Then there’s a lot of suspicion and these fears — will the priest get mad at me or think poorly of me later on?
This is not about making you feel as bad as you can feel, but it’s about helping you be healed as much as you can be healed. The priest is there showing how. The Catechism shows the priest is the servant of the sacrament and meant to be a minister of healing.
Once people get that, then confession takes on a whole new dimension.
What do you say about those who think, “I don’t have to go to confession because I haven’t done anything really bad”?
There’s a misunderstanding of what sin is and who God is. Sin is a certain kind of decision, but most have a second grade understanding of that, like “Did you pull your sister’s hair?” Then the teenager thinks, “Hitler was bad, and I’m not as bad as that.”
When it comes to relationship, you can describe sin as this: You’re saying to God, “God, I know what you want me to do, but I don’t care: I want to do what I want to do.” There’s a certain sense of rebellion. It’s saying, “I will not serve — I have other things I want to do.”
Even if I put the word “rebellion” to that, people say, “No, I just don’t care.” The problem becomes not only you don’t know what sin is, but you don’t understand who God is. God is not just “some people” or “other people.” He’s not just some guy who I can or cannot obey.
If people understand that, they have a more mature understanding of what sin is.
Do most Catholics have this understanding?
Most Catholics in our culture have about a second grade level of their faith. I mean that not as an insult — that’s a description. Ask them: “What are the Ten Commandments?” The vast majority can’t name the Ten Commandments.
So the examination of conscience is still a second-grade exam — “Did I pull my sister’s hair or disobey my parents?” It should be: “How am I treating my co-workers? Do I tell white lies on daily basis? Have I harbored grudges or forgiven people? How do I treat my wife?”
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Thursday, March 12, 2015
ICYC Reaction
I passionately believe in the power of God moving through retreat ministry. Why? Here is reaction from teens and chaperones from OLV after ICYC:
In Adoration tonight the hand of teens were raised, the tears flowed, healing spread, and the King of the Universe was revealed in the disguise of bread and wine. Thank you for making this experience possible. A few of our youth were awakened to a possible call to the religious life and each one of the 51 that attended created new friendships, experienced the young church, and encountered Christ in a fresh and profound way.
It was such a beautiful weekend and really invigorated my faith journey. As a youth leader, I could see all youth benefitted from attending.
With your help I understand more about God and why he died for our sins.
This weekend was amazing, and I never felt this happy in me knowing that God is actually with us.
Thank you so much for your generous gift. I got the honor to chaperone the teens from our parish but ended up being blessed to see the Holy Spirit work in their lives. I believe our parish has a bright future.
My favorite part was when they brought out God to us [in Adoration]. It was a very emotional moment, and I usually hate emotional moments, but it was extremely amazing. I felt happy and willing to change.
I was touched by the stories and testimonies of teens as they felt Christ’s presence this weekend. This was a very spiritual and touching experience. We experienced Christ through Adoration and the music playing. Without your help we wouldn’t have the amazing opportunity.
In better understanding the saints and in getting closer to my God I feel that I am ready to finish my Confirmation journey.
ICYC helped me in my journey of becoming an adult.
I really enjoyed ICYC. Not only was it fun but I connected to God more than I ever have!
I have become a better person and will continue to be a servant of Jesus Christ. The ladies workshop showed me what true beauty is. Sr. Miriam made me look at life with a new perspective.
To be honest I was always kind of skeptical about my faith, but this weekend has helped to solidify my beliefs.
You’ve helped someone enjoy and witness God and the Holy Spirit. Maybe that is what they needed, and there are not enough thank yous in the world.
Without your help many wouldn’t been able to experience the power of God’s love. That is something you can’t compare to anything else. Thank you for helping guide many to a righteous path by the side of God.
I’ve never seen so many people come together and pray and bond.
I have been with the youth this weekend as they have grown deeper in their faith. Christ is totally present in their hearts.
This experience is one I will never forget for the speakers touched my heart and opened my mind. During Adoration I felt my soul touched by the Holy Spirit in such a way that I feel like I will never be the same again. Words cannot describe the gratitude I feel for being able to have come to ICYC.
Wednesday, March 11, 2015
The 40 Film
This is an urgent message from our parishioner Jennifer Loutzenhiser:
A local Catholic, Dustie, purchased the license for a documentary called "40" which is a documentary on the affect 40 years of legalized abortion has had on America. The owner of the Overland Park Cinema donated the use of his theater located at: 7051 W. Overland Rd, Boise. We are showing the film this Sunday at 2:15 and again the following Wednesday (18th) at 6pm.
This film is completely appropriate for all audiences. It doesn't show gross images or anything like that. It shows pro-abortion people stating their stance and then prominent pro-life people give theirs. It's been shown on EWTN several times.
We have had problems getting places that will allow us to sell or advertise the movie and now we're just a few days away and have a lot of tickets on our hands. If you, anyone from your youth group, staff, volunteers... are interested in tickets please let me know and I'll have them for you at will call for free. While it's unfortunate that we weren't able to sell tickets, it's really most important to us that people see this film.
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Wednesday, February 4, 2015
Don't Quit
I know I posted about Russell Wilson yesterday, but I am impressed by his response to the criticism he has received after the Super Bowl and by the character he continues to exhibit. Teens, if you're looking for a role model in a professional athlete, he is a great one to emulate. Here is a recent Facebook post from Mr. Wilson.
Thank you to a good friend for passing this inspirational message along. 12's, share this with your friends and loved ones if you are already focusing on next season.#DontQuit
When things go wrong, as they sometimes will,
When the road you're trudging seems all uphill,
When the funds are low and the debts are high,
And you want to smile, but you have to sigh,
When care is pressing you down a bit-
Rest if you must, but don't you quit.
Life is queer with its twists and turns,
As every one of us sometimes learns,
And many a fellow turns about
When he might have won had he stuck it out.
Don't give up though the pace seems slow -
You may succeed with another blow.
Often the goal is nearer than
It seems to a faint and faltering man;
Often the struggler has given up
When he might have captured the victor's cup;
And he learned too late when the night came down,
How close he was to the golden crown.
Success is failure turned inside out -
The silver tint in the clouds of doubt,
And you never can tell how close you are,
It might be near when it seems afar;
So stick to the fight when you're hardest hit -
It's when things seem worst that you must not quit.
Thank you to a good friend for passing this inspirational message along. 12's, share this with your friends and loved ones if you are already focusing on next season.#DontQuit
When things go wrong, as they sometimes will,
When the road you're trudging seems all uphill,
When the funds are low and the debts are high,
And you want to smile, but you have to sigh,
When care is pressing you down a bit-
Rest if you must, but don't you quit.
Life is queer with its twists and turns,
As every one of us sometimes learns,
And many a fellow turns about
When he might have won had he stuck it out.
Don't give up though the pace seems slow -
You may succeed with another blow.
Often the goal is nearer than
It seems to a faint and faltering man;
Often the struggler has given up
When he might have captured the victor's cup;
And he learned too late when the night came down,
How close he was to the golden crown.
Success is failure turned inside out -
The silver tint in the clouds of doubt,
And you never can tell how close you are,
It might be near when it seems afar;
So stick to the fight when you're hardest hit -
It's when things seem worst that you must not quit.
Tuesday, February 3, 2015
Russell Wilson, Faith, and the Corporal Works of Mercy
As we explore the Corporal Works of Mercy with our middle schoolers, I thought it was appropriate to see how one person is visiting the sick and imprisoned at Children's Hospital in Seattle. That one person happens to be Russell Wilson, who you may know from quarterbacking the Seattle Seahawks to two straight Super Bowls and throwing a history-altering interception at the goal line on Sunday, but he proves with his faith and choices off the field that life is much bigger than football.
This article comes from ESPN.com and is authored by Kevin Van Valkenburg.
SEATTLE -- If you want to understand why Russell Wilson might go down as the most important player in the history of the Seattle Seahawks, maybe even the most important athlete to ever ply his trade in the Pacific Northwest, you can't begin with football.
It's better to start with a story of a beautiful five-pound boy, and his imperfect, broken heart.
In the months leading up to the birth of his twin sons, Seattle salesman Dave Quick daydreamed about sports the way so many young, first-time fathers do. When he closed his eyes, he could see the three of them, years from now, laughing and roughhousing in the yard. He imagined teaching the boys how to catch footballs, how to turn double plays, how to shrug it off when you skinned your knee. His parental anxieties were overwhelmed by the dual joys of anticipation and excitement.
Reality, however, is almost always more complicated than daydreams. In a series of sonograms late in his wife Kristina's pregnancy, doctors spotted a few abnormalities they said "concerned them." One of the boys -- the Quicks would name them Harrison and Franklin -- had a heart that wasn't developing properly. Sonograms, they warned the Quicks, can be part science, part guesswork, so it was difficult to say what it might mean when they were born. Doctors urged Dave and Kristina to focus on the positive, not the unknown.
But when the boys were born at Evergreen Hospital in the early morning hours of Oct. 30, the truth was obvious: Harrison was healthy, but Franklin needed to be moved, right away, to the ICU of Seattle Children's Hospital. His condition was worse than doctors initially feared. In addition to problems with his heart, his intestines hadn't properly developed. There was a chance the condition could be fatal.
The next week unfolded for the Quicks as a stress-induced, semi-sleepless blur. Surgeons went to work fixing Franklin's intestines, and sketched out a plan for how to fix his heart. Dave Quick learned to sleep, rarely for more than 10 minutes at a time, sitting in a chair next to Franklin's bed. Nurses would shuffle in and out of the room at all hours, and soon Quick lost track of where days began and nights ended. At one point, one of the nurses noticed Franklin wasn't breathing, and an army of medical personnel swarmed into the room to snake a tube down his tiny throat and bring him back to life. "I basically lost my mind," Quick says. "I went into the hallway and I more or less crumbled."
Franklin survived, and he survived a 10-hour open-heart surgery several days later, but he wasn't out of danger. The weeks and months to come would be critical. A few days later, Quick was half asleep next to his son when a stranger walked into the room. For a moment, Quick wasn't sure if he was dreaming or imagining things. But then the stranger, Seahawks quarterback Russell Wilson, did something the Quicks will never forget.
He hugged them.
He told the Quicks he and his wife, Ashton, had heard about Franklin, and they'd been thinking about him a lot. They'd been praying for him every day. They just wanted to stop by and let the Quicks know they were pulling for Franklin.
"I think I probably experienced about 10 different emotions," Quick says. "Shock, disbelief, but most of all, pure genuine joy. For someone of his stature to do that is just amazing. For 20 minutes, he enabled us to not think about everything we were going through. He greeted us like we were family. I'd heard about these visits, that it was something he liked to do, but you see him walk through that door and you know he's the real deal. He is truth."
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What does a star athlete really mean to the city where he plays?
It's a complicated question, and the truth is, the answer varies depending on the market and the athlete. In certain cities -- perhaps even in a majority of cities -- it means little. There is no larger bond formed with fans, no deeper resonance. And there's nothing wrong with viewing it as a business relationship, to be frank. It's just sports, after all. Some athletes you simply cheer for on Sundays, and don't think about much beyond the white lines.
But as the Seahawks prepare to play in the Super Bowl for the second time in team history this Sunday, as the franchise tries to capture the city's first major sports title since 1979, much of Seattle would like you to understand the feelings people have for their 25-year-old quarterback, Russell Carrington Wilson, are a little different.
It goes beyond his escapability, his humility or his accuracy with a football. It's what he's done with his time in just two short years, and what he represents.
"I think we've all fallen in love with the guy," says James Paxton, a Seahawks fan who dyed his goatee bright green and his mustache dark blue for the team's playoff run. "He gave us hope back."
Click here to continue reading.
This article comes from ESPN.com and is authored by Kevin Van Valkenburg.
SEATTLE -- If you want to understand why Russell Wilson might go down as the most important player in the history of the Seattle Seahawks, maybe even the most important athlete to ever ply his trade in the Pacific Northwest, you can't begin with football.
It's better to start with a story of a beautiful five-pound boy, and his imperfect, broken heart.
In the months leading up to the birth of his twin sons, Seattle salesman Dave Quick daydreamed about sports the way so many young, first-time fathers do. When he closed his eyes, he could see the three of them, years from now, laughing and roughhousing in the yard. He imagined teaching the boys how to catch footballs, how to turn double plays, how to shrug it off when you skinned your knee. His parental anxieties were overwhelmed by the dual joys of anticipation and excitement.
Reality, however, is almost always more complicated than daydreams. In a series of sonograms late in his wife Kristina's pregnancy, doctors spotted a few abnormalities they said "concerned them." One of the boys -- the Quicks would name them Harrison and Franklin -- had a heart that wasn't developing properly. Sonograms, they warned the Quicks, can be part science, part guesswork, so it was difficult to say what it might mean when they were born. Doctors urged Dave and Kristina to focus on the positive, not the unknown.
But when the boys were born at Evergreen Hospital in the early morning hours of Oct. 30, the truth was obvious: Harrison was healthy, but Franklin needed to be moved, right away, to the ICU of Seattle Children's Hospital. His condition was worse than doctors initially feared. In addition to problems with his heart, his intestines hadn't properly developed. There was a chance the condition could be fatal.
The next week unfolded for the Quicks as a stress-induced, semi-sleepless blur. Surgeons went to work fixing Franklin's intestines, and sketched out a plan for how to fix his heart. Dave Quick learned to sleep, rarely for more than 10 minutes at a time, sitting in a chair next to Franklin's bed. Nurses would shuffle in and out of the room at all hours, and soon Quick lost track of where days began and nights ended. At one point, one of the nurses noticed Franklin wasn't breathing, and an army of medical personnel swarmed into the room to snake a tube down his tiny throat and bring him back to life. "I basically lost my mind," Quick says. "I went into the hallway and I more or less crumbled."
Franklin survived, and he survived a 10-hour open-heart surgery several days later, but he wasn't out of danger. The weeks and months to come would be critical. A few days later, Quick was half asleep next to his son when a stranger walked into the room. For a moment, Quick wasn't sure if he was dreaming or imagining things. But then the stranger, Seahawks quarterback Russell Wilson, did something the Quicks will never forget.
He hugged them.
He told the Quicks he and his wife, Ashton, had heard about Franklin, and they'd been thinking about him a lot. They'd been praying for him every day. They just wanted to stop by and let the Quicks know they were pulling for Franklin.
"I think I probably experienced about 10 different emotions," Quick says. "Shock, disbelief, but most of all, pure genuine joy. For someone of his stature to do that is just amazing. For 20 minutes, he enabled us to not think about everything we were going through. He greeted us like we were family. I'd heard about these visits, that it was something he liked to do, but you see him walk through that door and you know he's the real deal. He is truth."
----------------------------
What does a star athlete really mean to the city where he plays?
It's a complicated question, and the truth is, the answer varies depending on the market and the athlete. In certain cities -- perhaps even in a majority of cities -- it means little. There is no larger bond formed with fans, no deeper resonance. And there's nothing wrong with viewing it as a business relationship, to be frank. It's just sports, after all. Some athletes you simply cheer for on Sundays, and don't think about much beyond the white lines.
But as the Seahawks prepare to play in the Super Bowl for the second time in team history this Sunday, as the franchise tries to capture the city's first major sports title since 1979, much of Seattle would like you to understand the feelings people have for their 25-year-old quarterback, Russell Carrington Wilson, are a little different.
It goes beyond his escapability, his humility or his accuracy with a football. It's what he's done with his time in just two short years, and what he represents.
"I think we've all fallen in love with the guy," says James Paxton, a Seahawks fan who dyed his goatee bright green and his mustache dark blue for the team's playoff run. "He gave us hope back."
Click here to continue reading.
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